by Bill Cady on February 29, 2012
What kind of sin does one need commit to lose a friend? It’s never a treasured moment to have contact severed with someone we enjoy. In my opinion a friendship should never be set asunder without a very good reason. Perhaps something along the lines of dishonesty, maybe physical or emotional harm. Theft would also [...]
by Bill Cady on February 28, 2012
The authorities grant us a hearing of sorts at the beginning. It’s an appearance before a judge who makes a decision on our eviction process. For many of us, by the time it happens, we’ve been forced to move to a rental unit. The rest, like me, have a mortgage we can’t pay by that [...]
by Bill Cady on February 26, 2012
Guess you could say I’m a “both sides guy” on that issue. There certainly have been a number of times in my life, well into three digits, quite possibly four, where it’s what I’ve needed. Prayed for. Languished over. Flipping that one over to the other side, there’ve been a substantial number of times I’ve [...]
by Bill Cady on February 25, 2012
Perhaps, for that reason, and because I love dogs as much as I do, I should be more willing to forgive the generic “you”, i.e., humans, for doing the same thing. Yesterday was “Day #1″ for my new dog. His name’s Blue, a Lab mix who shares quite a bit of my history. When I [...]
by Bill Cady on February 24, 2012
Confusion arises, barren days imposing themselves on this man’s soul, Amidst the utter dearth of reasons to cause a smile; As loneliness pervades every thought, each moment of the day, Creating feelings he’s lesser than whole. The sunshiny center of his happiness is away, Fears tumultuously charge forth she won’t return; And past pains, [...]
by Bill Cady on February 23, 2012
… it seemed I had lots of energy, although I thought I was already fading in that respect, and others. It’s been a flip-flop thing lately with the chemotherapy and it made me look back. There are still days I feel better than others, along with some as bad, or low on energy, as I’ve [...]
by Bill Cady on February 22, 2012
At times I amaze myself. It would be nice to think it happens because I, Bill Cady, am an amazing man, but even I have to concede that’s a big reach. Maybe it’s more accurate to say commonplace matters are so new to me they become amazing. Or, something in between. For the sake of [...]
by Bill Cady on February 21, 2012
Remember that pithy old saying, “When life hands you lemons, make lemonade”? Anyone who ever had a grandmother has heard that one. As we get older, maybe because we’re nearing the age of the person(s) who passed these gems along to us, they begin to make more sense. That one came to mind for me [...]
by Bill Cady on February 19, 2012
It would be wonderful to announce that much about the cancer I’ve been screwing around with the last two-plus years, and I believe such an announcement will be forthcoming not too far down the road. However, for the moment, the good news is contained to the other event that became a temporary setback for me. [...]
by Bill Cady on February 19, 2012
These travels have encompassed so many miles, so many days of my life, a vast multitude of years, And, I must confess, there have been times I’ve quit, I have given in, have succumbed to my fears. You were but the figment of an imagination — mine, you were a goddess never to exist for [...]